It’s bad enough when you have to let go of “friends.” but, it’s really sad when your family members become Toxic.
I used to get really stressed when a family member was upset with me. I always wanted to feel loved and accepted. When my parents died, I pretty much figured we would all go our separate ways. However, Sis #2 has stuck by, for a while. ( I will call them Sis #1 and #2 now, for anonymity).
I think she and I really went downhill after my Divorce. She got involved in a disagreement between a friend of mine and me.. which had absolutely nothing to do with her and became friendly with ex-friend; even going so far as believing her lies about me, while at the same time, getting upset with me for wanting to be Facebook Friends with a friend of hers.. which I respected and took back my request.
Sis #2 also spied on my last blog for 8 months then got upset when I figured it out… which is why I started this one. She gets upset and either tries to guilt me or gives me the silent treatment. She hasn’t talked to me except one word texts since screaming at me over the fact that I was getting the COVID Vaccines.
The latest is a text today regarding money left by my mom. Without going into detail, the text was snotty, so I called her and of course got her machine. I stood up for myself and now she is accusing me of getting out of control and needing psychological help! I am not allowed to have an opinion when it comes to her!
Suffice it to say, we are probably done. At least, it’s back to the silent treatment which I am used to, anyway. It’s a bit sad because it is family, but, you can’t pick them.
I am glad I believe my parents are resting until the Rapture or until God comes back. Because they would not be happy with what’s happening with our family, down here.